The art of being joyful, of having joy of living joy... We all talk about having more joy in our lives but are we actually doing it or paying lip service to it? The reason I ask is I often see people struggle with their raw bombshell journey. We either get the food and can be happy with that or we don't get the food bit and go off on a tangent trying to get it to work or we get the lifestyle bit and look externally fantastic or again we don't and end up not knowing what our true style or representation to the world should be. More often that not we cannot get both of them working together which leaves incongruency within us. Shining on the inside yet hidden away on the outside or stunning on the outside disguising the internal yuk.
This leaves a feeling of frustration at not knowing which direction to focus on first. A feeling of being stuck in a rut with your raw food journey and the image you present.
Back to joy, how does this fit in? Well, I am a believer in having key words that represent the journey you're on. Now being a bombshell or a bombshell in the making, an important representation of you is joy.
To encompass joy means: The passion or emotion excited by the acquisition or expectation of good; pleasurable feelings or emotions caused by success, good fortune, and the like, or by a rational prospect of possessing what we love or desire; gladness; exhilaration of spirits; delight.
Here I present to you nine delicious ways for you to bring in joy to your life right now:
1. Only surround yourself with things that make you smile, that you love. It is draining to your energy to hold onto stuff you feel you should. Like that vase which great aunt Mabel bought you and hell, you never liked it anyway, but you were just too sentimental to throw it out and now it's sat there chipped and the flowers have passed their best. What is that really saying to you? How is that treating you? Come on, you are number one in your life so start to act as if you are. Let's freely toss anything in your house that is not making you smile. You don't have to go to town on this one (well you can if you wish!) but take it one small step at a time, just throw out one thing that depletes your energy and makes you frown. So liberating!
2. Go to the closet. Is it an array of clothes all different sizes from the time you piled the weight on, the skinny jeans that perhaps you might just squeeze into again, the top you bought 10 years ago that just might come back in fashion. Get rid of them. They are energetically stopping you from releasing your bombshell. From finding the clothes that really represent you. By clinging to the past through your clothes you are stopping the joy flowing, you are subconsciously putting the breaks on living your style. Again go and toss away freely and with joy all the clothes that no longer serve you.
3. Into the make-up bag. How long has some of that stuff been in there? Go toss! Ooh I'm getting on a roll here. A streamlined make-up bag with feel good products in, makes you feel so damn special. Beautiful packaging, beautifully luxurious products, beautiful you, you get my drift.
4. Underwear, is it all saggy and grey? Come on! How is that going to get in touch with your bombshell? Go and treat yourself. A pair of exquisite knickers in silks or satins with pretty lace can be just for you, you don't have to wear them for anyone else but yourself and you don't have to wait for someone to buy them for you! It is such a shame that we all keep the good stuff for a special occasion. I say a special occasion is everyday when you want to live with joy!
5. Only eat the raw food that you really really love. There is so much information out there about the "correct" way to consume raw food that in honesty, it can lead to too much back-biting and playground I'm better than you camps. Are we grown ups here? To me, if you are acting out as your raw bombshell, you choose the food that supports her. With a flick of your delicately perfumed wrist, give all the do-gooders a dismiss and use your instinct to find the best food for your desires.
6. Make raw food that gives a song to your heart and a joy in your step. Find a recipe, create a recipe or buy a recipe and make it your signature dish. Make this whenever you need a cheering up and a reminder of the joy raw food can bring into your life.
7. Serve food in your prettiest, most glamorous dishes and glasses. There is something magical about the treat of a decadent smoothie in a leopard print glass perhaps that is just me, but you get my drift and I'm sure we all have a favourite glass and if not, why not... go and buy one!
8. With all the chores we women have to do, with all the mundane running around and serving other people, we really do put ourselves on the back burner and forget that we are special. It's time to stop and take a moment to remember that you are important, that your hopes, dreams and desires are to be taken seriously. There is never a better time to start something, the grass is never greener and to take in the power that the present is our gift means it is your time to connect to you and your passion. This can be whatever gives you joy and makes time stand still when your pursue it.
9. Stop the negative inner chatter and get the devil off your shoulder, his sweet nothings lead to nothing but mayhem. Now as exciting as mayhem may appear to be, long term it brings nothing but disorientation and a loss of you. So with your sweetest smile tell him to take a ride and go hang out else where, whilst you insist on listening to the glorious joyful chatter of your bombshell spirit.
Here's to your sweet success. If you want to find out more about how to bring the joy into your raw bombshell life, how listening to your raw bombshell spirit will inflame your desires or how raw food is pure joy, I invite you to download for FREE my raw bombshell visulisation, just enter your details in the box above.
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